Strong or Completely Insane?

Keyshia Cole said it the best, “ You need to get if he don’t wanna love you the right way he ain’t gonna, it ain’t where he’s at its where he wanna be!... I understand why you wanna try to make him stay home late at night, but if he wanna go he’ll he gone no lie… If he ain’t gonna love you the way he should then let it go, if he ain’t gonna treat you the way he should then let it go” I personally know a situation w. a chick that has been with her dude for over 10 years, 3 kids and recently got married. This dude cheats on her regularly, and she continuously puts up with it having the mentality that she signed up to stay by her man’s side for better or worse. I cannot support this on any level! YES I get that people make mistakes, YES I get that sh%t happens & YES I get that ppl can forgive and move on BUT at what point do you stop and realize your worth???! I’ve been said to be cold-hearted with an “I don’t give a f@#k attitude.” I’ve been said to be emotionally detached when it comes to the opposite sex and honestly none of that bothers me because I am strong enough to move past the bull sh*t. I’m human and definitely not exempt from being played but I’ve been there done that and refuse to stand for it!!! Ladies, you have to realize your worth and also your role. A man who has committed to have a monogamous relationship with you should not be cheating, NO MATTER WHAT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE…now me personally I believe ALL men cheat and I am not condoning but I feel there are some who honestly got caught up and made a mistake and there are many who just aren’t happy in their situation with their girlfriend/wife and cheats to fill the voids. Regardless, cheating is wrong and should never go without a consequence because the moment it does, is the very moment CHEATING IS TRANSLATED AS ACCEPTABLE and it will happen again. If you fall victim to this, you need to re-evaluate your situation and in the words of Tamar Braxton, “Get your life.” Don’t blame yourself because a man has a mind of his own and before cheating if the problem is you, he should have left. Don’t stay because of the fear of moving on or starting over because you will be selling yourself short and missing out on where you are supposed to be! And most important don’t stay because of your kids because FYI kids can sense, feel and hear what’s going on and it’s been proven, HISTORY REPEATS ITSELF! You are STRONG when you find the strength to leave and completely insane to stay for all the wrong reasons. (NO REASON IS RIGHT).