Pleasure P - What Kind Of Man

When I Go To The Club
You Think I'm Cheating
And When I Don't Answer My Phone
You Think I'm Cheating
When I'm Chilling Out With My Goons
You Think I'm Cheating
And When I'm Working Late
You Think I'm Cheating
You Think I'm Cheating
Baby All We Need Is Trust
I Ain't That Nigga That Broke Your Heart
So Don't Bring Your Insecurities
Into This Faithful Relationship
Cause I'm Just Here To Love Ya
I'm Just Here To Love Ya
Baby I'm Just Here To Love Ya
Woah Oh Woah
Baby I Just Want You To Know
I Really Really Love Ya I Will Never Break Your Heart

I Know You Got Trust Issues
But That's Just An Excuse
That Don't Give You A Reason To Accuse Me
Of Shit That I Don't Do

Pleasure P - Help Myself

Come on daddy lemme be your bad girl ...got me open come inside my world. Let me show you the way, I back up what I say.... LOVE this song!

Frank Ocean - Thinking About You [Lyrics On Screen]

Mood of the day........

Tupac coachella 2012

This is so amazing!!!!!! Seriously this ish looks sooooo real!

Fat Joe Ft. Mary J. Blige, Chris Brown, Fabolous, Kirko Bangz - Another ...

Song of the week....Another Round Remix! Love it!

Congrats Yandy!

It's finally confirmed....Congrats Yandy!

Kenya Bell singing

And here is how Kenya really sounds!......hmmmm....tell us what you think!

Official Video For Kenya Bell's hit single "Choices" Featuring Cashis Da...

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So for those of you who watch Basketball Wives Season 4 & saw the last episode with Kenya's screening of her new video....well here is the full video!

Lol now I give everyone the benefit of the doubt but I am also very honest with my opinions!...The video isn't as BAD as they made it seem, but it does seem amateur & Kenya needs to work on her appearance because I am not feeling it!...#newhairnewclothesnewmoves!

S.T.I.L.E.T.T.O. Impressions Upgrades Makeup Bag with Glamorous Chicks C...

3/17/12 S.T.I.L.E.T.T.O. attended Glamorous Chicks Cosmetics Launch Party at Pooka Boutique in Orange, NJ. 3 weeks later we sat down with Shana Joseph (GCC CEO) to learn more details regarding GCC's products & services!!!

Drake - HYFR ft. Lil Wayne (Official Video)

Love this video!!!!

Nicki Minaj - Press Conference (feat. Charlemagne, Safaree "SB" Samuels)...

Ok.........can we officially say Nicki is back?! The realest interview!

Nicki Minaj With The Breakfast Club Power 105.1 [Part 1][HD]

Nicki on Power 105.1....Breakfast club!

Nicki Minaj :: I Am Your Leader (feat. camron and rick ross) (New Song 2...

When I fly, it's one letter and one number
You wack hoes could get hot for one summer
After that the queen will still reign here
I'm Santa Clause to these hoes without a reindeer
Saint Nick, Ross, hey Rick, I just got a toy, cost 850
Now I'm in the hood, niggas is getting woodies
Hit up Hot Topic, Nicki Minaj hoodies
I'm a Brand bitch I'm a BRAND
Go to Harlem, and get Cam
It's dipset, get your dick wet
Boarded the big jet, and got a big check
Now you tell me, who the fuck is winning
I'm on my Russel Simmons, Nicki denim, Nicki linen

Nicki Minaj:: Right By My Side (Feat. Chris Brown ) (New Song 2012) Albu...

It all comes down to this
I miss your morning kiss
I won’t lie, I’m feeling it
You’re gone now, and I’m missing it
I’m so dumb, I must admit
It’s too much, to hold it in
I can’t say no more than this
I just hope your heart hear me now
Gotta let you know, how I’m feeling
You own my heart, he just renting
Don’t turn away, pay attention
I’m pouring out my heart, oh boy


Love this song.....

Nicki Minaj - Champion ft. Drake, Young Jeezy & Nas

This song is definitely a good look- Nas #epic

Nicki Minaj - Beez In The Trap (Explicit) ft. 2 Chainz

I'm not gonna lie Nicki lost me for a lil bit going all theatrical on me in hip hop but I actually like this track and the video is sexy......Tell us what you think!!

Drake - Take Care ft. Rihanna (Official Video)

Video of the week........Body language in this video is so sensual, I love it!!

Blind Dates! Don't run!!

That AWKWARD moment when you get that phone call from one of your friends and they say “I have someone I want you to meet and go on a date with.”……All of a sudden there is just an awkward silence followed by all sorts of negative responses (HELL NO, for what?!, Na I’m good sorry I don’t think so, I don’t trust you so ummm I’ll pass etc)...

That AWKWARD moment when your friend keeps pushing the date almost begging while you wondering what the hell the catch is for your friend to go so hard for this date…

& then that AWKWARD moment when you AGREE to go on this blind date that you already have mapped out in your head as “horrific & painful.” Now you sitting there like “DAMN what did I get myself into.” Let’s be real 8 outta 10 blind dates normally end the way we expected, HORRIBLE and I’ve always thought of them as a desperate act or a slower version of speed dating which in my head is lame!

So why am I bringing all of this up?! Well I was set up a blind date (My close friend felt I needed a change in scenery…a change in the type of men I normally attract or am attracted to and go for someone outside of my norm) so I agreed….of course I was thinking of EVERY disaster that could go wrong…(what if he is hideous, what if he smells, what if he has bad teeth and bad breath, what if he has a cocky attitude with no reason to be cocky, what if he has the lamest personality, what if the conversation is dry, what if he can’t dress, what if he is too forward, what if he is all about the sex, and more importantly what if he is just damn CRAZY!?” )

Anyways, despite all of the thoughts & concerns I still went….let’s just say I was 100% wrong! He was attractive, laid back, interactive, not at all self centered, down to earth, had great teeth, sex wasn’t even mentioned & he made me smile AND I felt extremely comfortable….so all of that worrying for a great night!

This shit doesn’t happen often! Lol but the moral of the story is take risks, try new things with new people. Not every date is successful whether it’s a blind one or one with someone you have already met….but sometimes, that unexpected time that things didn’t go left will be just enough off that negativity you feel when the words “blind date” is mentioned…..

We actually went out again…..and it was just as good as the first time. Now before everyone runs to their friends asking to be set up on a blind date, remember 8 out of 10 aren’t successful and sometimes its TRIAL & ERROR, HIT or MISS……but there could be that chance that you find someone who may have a place in your life. Rules still apply for successful blind dates as well as other dates, don’t put all your eggs in one basket, it is still dating!!! & just because the first 3 or 4 dates went well doesn’t mean that’s your prince charming or next girlfriend. It takes time to get to know a person & their wants/needs may not be yours vice versa….everything happens for a reason (Either to show you blind dates aren’t that bad or to give you an introduction to someone who you were supposed to meet and learn their purpose as ya’ll get to know more about each other.) So the next time your friend says, I have someone I want you to meet and go on a date with,” give it a shot!

The Necessities In A Successful Relationship!

"I want a man who compliments me. In other words we need to be able to balance each other out. We can have lots in common but also be able to accept each other’s differences. " -SlimmFancy

So I've given this a lot of thought...I sat down and really thought about what I felt were the top qualities every successful relationship should possess... And with the help of a few friends, I was able to narrow it down!!

So before I begin let me just say this is strictly my view and my opinion not saying it's right or wrong....

1. Presence: personal appearance or bearing, especially of a dignified nature

Confidence: sure of oneself; bold

Know you got it!!! (Make sure you really got it first lol)…. Confidence should be like a permanent outfit from head to toe.(it should never come off). Whether you are walking a runway or walking down the quietest block...whether you are giving a speech in front of 7,000 people or on a dinner date with your lover...whether you are giving a presentation or on one knee proposing, your confidence should ALWAYS be present. Your confidence can set you apart from everyone else. I always give the example you can dress two people from head to toe in the same hideous outfit (one insecure & one confident) & please believe that confident person will be the first one noticed and might even have a group of ppl running out to buy an outfit just like theirs! Lol!

Confidence is Sexy , it's Bold, it makes a statement. Be careful though, there's a thin line between confidence & cockiness....the key is to remain humble . Know your worth! Think about it...if it shows that you don't know your worth how do you expect your lover to value you....

2.Independent: Free from the influence, guidance, or control of another or others; self-reliant

Intellectual: Having or showing intellect, especially to a high degree

Fellas seriously….no one wants a girl who is all about sitting pretty waiting for someone to take care of her financially. And ladies if something went left and you don’t have your own, when the relationship is over, what do you have to fall back on???? It is so NOT sexy for anyone to be lacking drive (motivation, determination, and inspiration) to be successful. Ladies don’t want a broke dude living on someone else’s income with no goals or plans of getting on their feet and being successful, just as much as a dude doesn’t want a girl who can’t hold her own. Independence is so important; it can definitely make or break a relationship! Also, have a mind of your own…yes it is normal to agree with and have several commonalities with your partner but it is also necessary to have your own mind, thoughts and individuality. Ne-yo says it best….

“She don’t look at me like Capt’n Save em, Gold digging no she don’t do that, Now she look at me like inspiration, she wanna be compliment to my swag. And everything she got, she worked for it, good life made for it, she take pride in saying that she paid for it……Only kinda girl I want, Independent Queen working for her throne….I love her cuz she got her own”

3. Sexually Competent – SEX DOES MATTER!

Yes I'm saying it sex plays a big role in a relationship...think about it what's the #1 way ppl cheat.....SEX. I feel you have to be sexually in tune with your lover (know what to do, how to do it, where to do it & know exactly how to please). I feel sex should have many different abilities ( ability to make art, make music, get crazy, be exotic, express creativity, ability to satisfy, exude passion etc) & I feel in order to keep it exciting lovers should be comfortable enough to explore and try new things from random places to handcuffs whips and chains (to each his own). Now don't get me wrong I understand there are couples who vow to abstinence so I am not referring to them. I am strictly referring to those who are sexually involved in their relationship. And just to be clear, I don't feel like people cheat sexually because they aren't getting what they need at home because in many situations you have exactly what you need and more at home but human nature and that curiosity of exploring something new is what gets people more times that none.

Just remember when deciding to commit sex plays a role so make sure it's someone you view as "sexually competent" to take care of your needs vice versa...unless you have decided they aren't that great in bed but all other qualities outweigh the sex and Made the commitment to be ok with that! sex is another one that can make or break your relationship! (just my opinion).

4. Understanding- To perceive and comprehend the nature and significance of; grasp

Communication- To express oneself in such a way that one is readily and clearly understood

Sometimes I think people automatically assume that others are mind readers! Cut it out!! I cannot stress enough how important communication is!!!!!! In a relationship 2 people have to be able to communicate (write it down, draw a picture, play it out in a game of charades) do what u have to do to make sure you communicate with your lover especially if it's an issue you have with them. Lack of communication leads to frustration, avoidance, aggravation and eventually a break up!! If you can't talk to your lover, the person who you have committed to build with, your best friend then how do you expect to progress?? Believe me when I tell you communication & understanding is key!

5.Loyalty- A feeling or attitude of devoted attachment and affection.

Trustworthy- worthy of being trusted; honest, reliable, or dependable

These two go hand in hand and this is a big one! For me it’s loyalty over everything because with loyalty comes a lot of other qualities such as trust, honesty & respect. When 2 people make that decision to truly commit, they are committing to be loyal to their man/lady and cheating is never an option. Leave the relationship before making a selfish decision to cheat because the minute you betray your lover is the same minute trust, honesty, respect and LOYALTY is obsolete and without these characteristics, a relationship cannot survive no matter what!!!!! If I can’t trust you as far as I can throw you, we have absolutely no future together……Just saying!

Diverse- Made up of distinct characteristics, qualities, or elements

It is refreshing to have someone who doesn’t blend in with the rest but can adapt to any situation without seeming misplaced. For me personally, I don’t want to be with someone who reminds me of 10 other people (lack of originality, lack of distinct characteristics) and I don’t want someone who I can bring with me to the club but can’t bring to a family function or an elegant dinner because they do not know how to adjust in different settings. I want someone who stands out (that’s what drew me in), someone who knows how to act based on where they are and who they are around (there is always a time & place for everything) and someone who is true to themselves (not having multiple personalities just to make people believe they are different or to simply be liked by everyone).

Last but not least a good sense of humor!!!!!!! Let it out, have fun, be silly, live life!!