Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Why Men Cheat....According to Men

According to a popular website www.askmen.com, there are 10 top reasons why men cheat....Out of the 10, here are the ones that are the most ridiculous to us!


Number 1
He doesn't love her anymore.
Stiletto: If you do not love someone anymore there is no purpose for the two of you to still be together. At this point there needs to be an understanding between the two that it's time to move on, not loving someone anymore is one of the most selfish reasons for cheating.


Number 2
She doesn't turn him on anymore.
Stiletto: Umm, Really though? Yes it's true that sometimes a female or even male gets comfortable in a relationship and no longer sees the need to "spice" things up....Yes this is BORING but again no reason to cheat. Cheating causes hurt way more than just communicating with your partner that they no longer turn you on! Either find a way to bring sexy back or make that decision to break up & move on. Sex isn't everything, Love conquers all.


Number 3
Women let them.
Stiletto: This has got to be the most ignorant reason ever... if a female does not know you are cheating does not mean she is letting you. If she finds out and forgives you through all your woos and woes that means she really loves you, just because she forgave your unfaithful behavior does not by any means say she is letting you....Please stop it!


Number 4
It's challenging and exciting.
Stiletto: Everyone nowadays love a challenge, they either want someone already taken or wanna see how far they can go without getting caught in their own relationship....I mean if you can have your cake and eat it too why not do it, right?....WRONG!!!!! A relationship is a special bond between two individuals built on honest, trust, loyalty and love. If you have all of these traits and truly love your partner, I do not care how bad the next chick is, you will remain faithful because what you got at home is everything you need, and if they aren't, its time to keep it moving, not cheat!


and last but not least.....


Number 5
His lady does not put out.
Stiletto:  A female who is not putting out is not putting out for a reason. Instead of running around and sleeping with any and everyone willing to put out, you should be having that talk with your lady to figure out exactly what the issue is.....you never know, you might be bragging to your friends about how you slept with this one and that one and your girl doesn't know meanwhile she's sleeping with your FRIEND! Lol, see how easy the tables can turn....


It's just not worth cheating whether it's the male or female. Playing with someone's heart can be really dangerous and no one's love should ever be taken for granted. So when you have that "one"......make sure you do everything in your power to keep that "one." #Dontcheat.



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